Christine Blasey Ford, Horses, and Healing

Christine Blasey Ford, Horses, and Healing

When I woke up on September 27, I had no intention of watching the Kavanaugh hearing. I just didn’t think my heart could take it. But I logged on to Facebook and there she was. Christine Blasey Ford. When she spoke, she was pleasing, kind, apologetic, and terrified...
You love being behind, don’t you?

You love being behind, don’t you?

How many hours a day are you behind a screen? Reacting. How many hours a day do we practice reacting? A like, a heart, an angry face, a thumbs up. A note of love and support. A note of correction. A note of opinion. A note of self-righteous belief. A message. A...
I see you. I know you. I was you. I am you.

I see you. I know you. I was you. I am you.

I see how you stay in bed longer than you “should” because it’s the only place that feels safe. I see you making deals with yourself to extend your time in the nest by checking your iPhone. Starting your day behind a screen. I see how you rush the morning, wishing for...
Staring down the overwhelm

Staring down the overwhelm

You know that feeling. The “to do” list is enormous. It swirls around in your head. Probably swirling so much that you’re fuzzy-brained, not knowing exactly what to do next. Your short-term memory goes. You end up doing double the work because you’ve gone back...
The Storage Units

The Storage Units

I have not one, but two (actually, technically, I have three but that’s another story) storage units. One of them I’ve had for almost 8 years. Here’s what’s in them…a bunch of shit that I don’t want to deal with. It occurred to me that we...